Don’t get me wrong: I think it’s great many people use this time of year to renew their goals, use it as an opportunity to rejuvenate themselves and kickstart a healthier lifestyle, and/or otherwise press the refresh button.
You’re finally going to purchase that gym membership? Great.
Okay, you’re intrigued by this whole Vegan thing? Fantastic.
You’re going to make a concerted effort to get more sleep and drink less caffeine and more water? Lovely.
You’re gonna start taking CBD oil to help manage your anxiety and diabetes, curtail inflammation, and help you beat Jason Bourne in a fist fight? Cool.1.
But honestly, part of my soul is dying that I’m taking time to write a “resolution post” in the first place.
It’s so cliche.
I mean, what’s next? Me posting a picture of me smiling to the camera while draping my arms over a barbell in the squat rack to make my arms look bigger?
Pfffft, whatever.
What could I possibly say or do (from the internet) to inspire people to not be a statistic and stick with their New Year’s Resolutions past next week?
Well, thankfully, my good friend, and non-sexual life partner, Dean Somerset, wrote a bang-up post on his Facebook page the other day doing just that.
It’s short and sweet and provides a ton of actionable context.
I don’t want to come across as a complete curmudgeon, however.
I recognize my words have some power in the industry and I wanted to take a few moments to share a quick example of how, when the time comes (and it WILL come), when you want to quit or cheat a workout, what you can do to re-frame your train of thought
As you embark on your fitness journey it’s unavoidable you’ll encounter days you’ll want to skip or give up altogether.
Who needs to workout when you can binge watch The Witcher on Netflix?
This feeling is normal.
Hell, I’ve been lifting weights since I was 13 (at this point it’s part of my DNA) and have made my living telling people to do the same since 2002, and even I have days I’d rather jump into the depth of Mordor than look at a dumbbell.
Too, sometimes I’ll be in the middle of a workout, exhausted, or just not feeling it that day, and think to myself, “I really don’t want to do this next exercise/set/finisher/what-have-you.”
I’m going home.
Yes, it’s true. Despite our best efforts to portray otherwise on social media…
…even us fitness pros succumb to epic cases of the “Fuck It’s.”
Honestly, it’s okay and a perfectly acceptable human emotion.
And sometimes you should give in to it. A day or two (or three) off from the gym isn’t going to be the end of the world and often begets better and more productive subsequent workouts.
However, and this is my inner Captain Obvious coming straight at you…
…this shouldn’t be a regular thing.
Whether you want to call it grit, resiliency, or mettle, there’s a lot to be said about sticking to the plan and building upon that base of consistency. Instead, and using myself as an example, when these thoughts enter my mind, I’ll acknowledge them and let them metabolize, but then take a page from my wife, Dr. Lisa Lewis, and do a slight re-frame.
Instead of quitting the exercise/set/workout or cheating I’ll think to myself:
“Okay, here comes the tough part. This is what I want. I’m about to get stronger, more diesel, and/or altogether more badass. My wife is totally going to want to make out with me when she sees these pecs.”
I don’t beat myself up for thinking the negative thoughts.
Again, it’s normal.
You do it, I do it, I suspect Tom Brady does it, we all do it.
I’ll allow the thoughts to happen, to ruminate for several seconds, but then I’ll set the re-frame, turn the page, and complete my set/workout.
The mind-trick works.
It could be used for other, non-lifting goals too. Embrace the power of the re-frame.
And, lastly, I wanted to take today to mention the best resources of 2019 as highlighted by yours truly. As the saying goes, “those who invest in themselves invest wisely.”
I don’t know, I just made that up.
But it kinda sounds like something someone smart would say.
Thanks again for your continued support and readership, and here’s to a splendid start to 2020 and a new decade!
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Best Resources of the Year 2019
FULL DISCLOSURE: I released two products this past calendar (<–I still can never spell this word right the first time) year that I’m very proud of and am going to highlight first.
This resource is targeted towards fitness professionals to help grow their businesses and brands and covers a gamut of topics from the likes of myself, Dean Somerset, Meghan Callaway, Dr. Lisa Lewis, Dr. Sarah Duvall, Sam Spinelli, Alex Kraszewski, Luke Worthington, and Kellie Davis.
I thought I thought of every exercise possible to execute with the Landmine (also referred to as the Angled Bar) apparatus, but then I read Meghan’s book and thought less of myself.
Meghan’s brain works differently than mine and she really went out of her way to create a lovely resource for fitness professionals (and non-fitness professionals) to use and refer to for some added Landmine motivation.
Mike is a long-time friend of mine who’s affinity for 90’s hop-hip is equal if not surpasses mine.
That’s saying a lot.
He’s also one of the coaches in the industry I respect the most, and I am always in awe of how he can simplify the most complex topics and make them more palatable for the masses.
I’d rather listen to Baby Shark on repeat for a week straight than read research articles.
I looooooove this resource so much because it keeps me up-to-date on the latest research on how to get strong and jacked, but I don’t have to interpret Klingon in order to understand it
More appropriately this should be titled 2019 Best Exercises (I Stole From Other Coaches) You Should Be Doing.
Nevertheless, I shared a bevy of (new to me) exercises in 2019 that garnered some interest on social media. Here are the ones that received the most traction.
Be sure to click the links so you can not only watch see the exercises in action, but also learn the why’s, key coaching cues, and, more importantly, to see how jacked I am.
The week between Christmas and New Year’s I like to highlight a select number of articles featured on my site during the past 365 days.
First up were the the articles that resonated with you, the reader, as defined by analytics and what piqued your interest…HERE.
Next up were the articles that resonated with me and filled my writer’s love tank…HERE.
Today I’d like to direct your attention to the best GUEST POSTS of 2019.
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Best Articles of 2019: Guest Posts
The State of Corrective Fitness 2019 – Kevin Mullins
This was FOUR part series DC based personal trainer, Kevin Mullins, wrote for the site that, if I were to be honest, is very much a Ken Burns’esque masterpiece.
As we grow older our fitness tends to get more and more robotic in nature. We sit in machines, performing endless, mindless repetitions, all while perusing our smart phones.
Shane showcases some ways to be less of a health/fitness zombie.
I think the fitness industry has gotten a bit complacent of late and regurgitated words like “broken” or “dysfunction” in order to 1) make themselves sound smarter than they really are and 2) to “trick” (potential) clients into trusting them.
They’re important and a crucial component of attaining our health/fitness/life goals. However, achieving SUCCESS and understanding that that feeling is all around us in unexpected places is just as important; if not more so.
While 2019 saw me writing less due to a multitude of factors (travel, gym expansion shenanigans, fighting crime, and life) it was still a very successful year on the content front.
Here are the most popular posts from the past trip around the sun based off web traffic.
Before we have a discussion on what to smash, thrash, and otherwise demolish when we see a mobility deficit lets pump the brakes and emphasize ALIGNMENT.
Who Did I Steal it From? – My coach, Greg Robins, plugged this into my program this month. When I saw it, at first I was like “tha fuck!?!”
What’s up with this foo-fooey exercise?
But then I performed a few sets and was like “whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat.”
I like it a lot
(cue Dumb & Dumber voiceover).
What Does It Do? – Well, like any single leg variation it challenges balance, core/hip stability, and helps to “temper” any strength imbalances between one leg or the other. Too, it gives the spine a bit of a reprieve from aggressive axial loading.
What separates this variation, however, is the addition of the COIL (or rotation of the upper torso). This subtle tweak offers a bit of a varying training stimulus in that it takes us out of the traditional up/down, forward/back nature of exercise we’re accustomed to and adds rotation into the mix; or transverse plane motion.
The twisting action also leads to a bit more internal rotation of the front hip which feels divine (unless you’re someone with a history of FAI; in that you’ll probably want to avoid this one).
As a quick aside I had my wife perform this exercise the other day after she tweaked her lower back/SI joint and she loved it. As noted in THIS article written by Dr. Erika Mundinger on this site a few years back, introducing rotation can be a game changer for those with chronic SI joint issues.
Key Coaching Cues – This exercise is pretty self-explanatory.
NOTE: Due to space we are limiting this to 35 attendees only. We aren’t saying this to be marketing sleezeballs and to create a false sense of urgency. Like, for real, space is limited. You better jump on this quick if you’re interested.
This workshop is “user friendly” for the masses. Whether you’re a personal trainer, strength & conditioning coach, physical therapist, or just someone who likes to dabble in the lifting of heavy things…you’re bound to benefit and learn something that will help you better serve your clients and athletes.
There’s an Early Bird rate for both of these events, so keep that in mind before you decide to hold off. Dean and I are really excited for this and hope to see you there!
SOCIAL MEDIA SHENANIGANS
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I’ve had a few clients start experimenting with keto after watching Game Changers.
Know what I did?
I didn’t throw my face into a wall in disbelief. Instead, I said “cool, curious to see how it goes.”
We know mental health problems can affect anyone regardless of profession, gender, age or income bracket. But why do entrepreneurs seem to suffer from depression at such an alarmingly higher rate?
Full Disclosure: I’m an awesome sleeper. I’m awesome at a lot of things – deadlifting, eating eggs, throwing a vicious split-finger fastball, the board game Stratego, coloring – but sleeping is my jam.
My wife often jokes that my side of the bed is my version of the Fortress of Solitude. As soon I’m horizontal I’m like “don’t talk to me” and I’m asleep 49 seconds later.3
To that point, I’m married to someone who isn’t a great sleeper. I’ve learned over the years that, in addition to my wife, some people, including clients of mine, aren’t good sleepers and that often times it behooves us to troubleshoot a few sleep hygiene tactics to see if we can nudge them towards a few more zzzzzz’s (<— see what I just did there?).
I get it: Sleep it not a sexy topic to write about. It ranks somewhere in between the Kreb’s Cycle and smoothie recipes featuring celery.
That said, ample sleep is crucial for a bevy of reasons – especially if you’re interested in getting bigger, faster, or stronger – and if you’re someone who has a hard time with it I hope this article, co-authored by both myself and my wife, Dr. Lisa Lewis, will help.
It’s not mid-town Manhattan, but busy nonetheless, and not devoid of your traditional city ambiance. You know, an orchestra of honking horns, construction everywhere, and drunk college students woo-hoo’ing at odd hours in the night.
Sleep can be a challenge sometimes.
That said, outside the general shittyness of traditional city chaos, it’s not uncommon for me to mutter to myself “go to bed” even if I hear someone shout for their Uber at 6:30 at night. I’ve grown quite cantankerous at 43.
Go to bed.
It’s my go to response to everything.
– “I feel awful/tired/sick.”
Go to bed.
– “I’m not making progress in the gym; I feel weak.”
Go to bed.
– “Tony, do you want steak or chicken tonight for dinner?”
Go to bed.
Encouraging people, particularly my clients, to get more sleep is something I am always aiming to highlight. More often than not, I find, lack of progress has less to do with adopting the latest fitness fad – keto, Jade eggs, gluten free, deer antler hand cream – and more to do with going to freakin’ bed.
Routine is paramount, and is something Lisa highlights in more detail below. For this reason, I always get a kick whenever I am training my high-school athletes and I tell them I start my bedtime magic mode around 8:30 PM.
Based off their facial reactions you would have thought I told them I grew up on Mars.
Truth be told I’ve always been an early-to-bed kind of guy.
In high-school I was consistently in bed by 9 PM.
The same could be said when I was in college; although change 9 PM to 10-11 PM, or if I were living life dangerously, maybe midnight.4.
And even now, as an adult, bedtime hovers around 9 PM…
…and it’s all because I stick to a routine.
But let’s let Lisa chime in.
Lisa
Despite the recommendation that adults sleep 7 to 9 hours per night (1), only 65% of Americans report hitting that mark (2). Getting less than six hours of sleep a night, on a regular basis, is bad news, and is linked to all kinds of negative health outcomes, specifically:
“… weight gain and obesity, diabetes, hypertension, heart disease and stroke, depression, and increased risk of death. Sleeping less than 7 hours per night is also associated with impaired immune function, increased pain, impaired performance, increased errors, and greater risk of accidents (p. 591).”
That’s bad.
But sleeping is awesome! It’s good for you, AND it feels fabulous! So what is the problem?
Why are so many of us sleep deprived?
In a word, life.
Longer working hours, balancing family and work, media and the internet, amazing TV, stress, anxiety, depression, substance abuse, and the Night Owl’s insistence that if they go to sleep, they’ll miss something (never understood that one, but to each their own).
Additionally, folks are stressed out, anxious, and/or depressed.
The National Institute of Mental Health reported that approximately 18% of the adult population will suffer from an anxiety disorder in a given year, and that more than 6.5% of the population will suffer from depression (3). Add the commonality of high stress lifestyles, and you’ve got a culture that’s worn down, strung out, and in need of a good night’s sleep.
But sleep is almost always negatively impacted by stress, anxiety, and depression.
So, whether you’re looking to treat anxiety, depression, or stress, to get stronger or leaner, be happier and healthier, or just be a functioning human being, you need 7+ hours of quality sleep under your belt every night. If you have trouble, here are some quick and easy tips for improving sleep hygiene:
Use your bed and bedroom for sleeping and sex, nothing else.
(Note from Tony: BOM CHICKA BOM BOM)
Make your bedroom dark, cool, and quiet.
Use earplugs, an eye mask, and/or white noise if needed.
Tony’s bedside table. Pictured are his superhero eye mask and current books he’s reading.
Avoid caffeine after noontime.
Avoid alcohol 6 hours before bedtime.
Avoid screens (laptop, tablet, phone, TV) before bedtime.
Create a bedtime ritual (this may include moisturizing, journaling, sex, meditation, and/or other relaxing activities).
(Note From Tony: My normal routine is to turn on both the fan and white noise machine and then grab one of my books and start reading. I’m lucky if I make it past four pages.)
If you’ve tried these interventions but still have trouble, you may have considered medications, supplements, aromatherapy, or banging your head against the wall. However, with so many options, it may seem overwhelming to research and then try something new.
In addition to being familiar with insomnia as a counselor and a psychologist, I also have plenty of personal experience. Since becoming a mom and an LLC, my thoughts, to-do’s, and concerns about the future can make it hard to get to sleep, and more importantly, to stay asleep. During busy and particularly stressful times, I’ve awoken after two to four hours of sleep, and have been unable to return to sleep for three or four hours.
And once there’s one bad night of sleep, a negative pattern can develop, and night after night of tossing, turning, tea-drinking, and deep-breathing leads to exhaustion, grumpiness, and mental-fogginess.
After trying some cognitive behavioral techniques for insomnia, meditation, and melatonin for Lisa, we felt there was “nothing left” for her to try but heavy duty sleep medication…
But then!
We found a supplement that has not “cured” her, but has helped her improve her sleep habits and the overall quality of her sleep on a consistent basis. Thanks to this once-at-bedtime pill, she can stay down once she’s fallen asleep, and if she does wake up, can return to sleep after 10-20 minutes, as opposed to three to four hours.
What is it?
Momentous Sleep
I was sent a bottle a few months ago to try out. But, admittedly, because I don’t suffer from insomnia or ever have any real issues falling (or staying asleep) I don’t use it as frequently as Lisa.
This isn’t to say, of course, I don’t dabble. I mean, we do live with a toddler.
I’ll alternate between Momentous Sleep or one of my other “go to” sleep supplements: a stack of Z-12 and ZMA (Zinc/Magnesium).
It just kinda matters what I’m in the mood for.
The former, though, does include Magnesium and melatonin, and I have noticed an even smoother transition to bedtime magic mode whenever I take it.
And to that end, the people at Momentous have been kind enough to offer $20 OFF any order of $50 (or more) on their site to any of my readers who may be interested in trying their products (they have several).
All you have to do is enter the code GENTILCORE20 (does not have to be all caps) when prompted to do so at checkout. If you’re someone who, despite all your best efforts to improve your sleep hygiene, still has a hard time falling (or staying) asleep…this may be an option to consider.
References
Watson, N.F., et. al. (2015). Recommended amount of sleep for a health adult: A joint consensus statement of the American Academy of Sleep Medicine and Sleep Research Society. Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine, 11, 591- 592. https://aasm.org/resources/pdf/pressroom/adult-sleep-duration-consensus.pdf.
